Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Fasting as a 'Perantau'

Alhamdulillah......we already in the 9th Ramadhan......n I already complete it very well...;)erm...fasting is a good for me as a preggy mom...huhuhu....coz..I can excercise my stomach...huhuhu..n the most important thing....nonit to kelam kabut pg2 to prepare breakfast n bento en hubby utk ke uni die...Before this..my routine...I hv to kelam kabut...in preparing hubby breakfast n bento..due to..hubby mmg nk kene bw 2 bento..which 1 for his lunch n another for his dinner..which..this meal..must be different...so..i hv to think 1st..what to cook...so that..hubby was not bored with my meal...huhuhu...;)

Fasting here...amat terasa...due to...this is the 1st time..we fast here...n different from Malaysia...where..I cant feel anything...no celebration like in Msia..accept I create my own Ramadhan..where..hubby..going back early ckit dr biasa...n I cooked 'rendang' for welcoming the month..which mmg mnjd tradisi kami to celebrate fasting month...huhuhu..erm..mcm nk raya..tp bkn raya..then...we solat maghrib n Isya' together....di selang dgn tazkirah en hubby...n..continue..solat tarawih...while altaf...for the first time..she was celebrate  fasting month with us...before this...last year..ms tue sy tgh sarat..n altaf still kat dlm lg...xkuar pun lg...

pic oleh Mr Google
Firstly solat tarawih..altaf just tgk je..parent dia solat...smbl duk kat tepi umi..dgn behave sekali....GOOOD!!!..but after we finish solat Isya'...dia mulakan projectnye...ambil segala jenis mainannya..n main seorg diri....then...lepas 2 raakaat je...mesti we hv to stop for a while n lyn kerenah die...mungkin kerana dia tgk parent dia asyik solat dgn lm...mk dia mulakan attitude die yg bukan2....tarik kain umi..peluk kaki abi..cabut songkok abi...baring atas sejadah...peluk kaki umi smpi xboleh nk ruku'...sujud dgn umi sekali..time umi sujud..pas tue gelak....bile umi sujud die cb nak angkat kepala umi...mcm perangai nye...n nangis bile xde org layan die...tp lawakny bile die buat mcm tue...time abi dh abis solat..abi ckp 'Assalammualaikum'...wah!!!!bukan main kelam kabut dia bgn or stop from doing nothing...n lari gi tempat lain...konon2 mcm dia xbuat ape..n jln blkk gi kat kite..smbl gelak2....kelakar btl ms tue...pndi btl dia cube mengelak....
nk nangis sbb xboleh keluar...

Lastly...en hubby feed a milk to her...n give her bear...n she play with her bear for a while...after 8 raakat...die mula xthn dh....cian pulak tgk die...last2..abi..continue her solat witir dulu..then umi jg altaf...tgk die peluh2 main2...sbb panas kot...ye la skang ni bahang panas mmg sgt terasa...di saat ramadhan ni...xde angin pun rasanya..suhu...hmpr cecah 37C kadang2 tue...sbr je....leher altaf abis calar balar sbb dia gi garu kalo panas...
Finish our solat..hubby ask me..Did u want to go to Mosque to do solat Tarawih...n my answer...totally...Yes!!...coz..mmg sblm2 ni..kami di bln Ramadhan mmg akan mengimarahkan masjid..kdg2..smpi tidur di masjid UMP tue..sbb ade Qiam....Then..he just..keep quiet..n said erm....n smile..ape mksdnye?erm.....n I ask did u ok..if we go there?smbl dlm fikiran terfikir...I know..he become a busy right now..his sensei..always give him a task..n make him to stay at his lab till late night...n I already know bout his sensei...from undergrad stds here...that most of them said..that his sensei..was strict...n one of Msia std..minta excuse for a while due to he want to solat jumaat...sbb class sensei to waktu solat jumaat...but the sensei told u hv to attend the class...die mcm x conpromi pun our religious...erm...erm..i hv no comment bout dis...cian kat std tue...n when I told to my hubby..that..his sensei..dia ok je ngan dia..stkt ni..dia boleh je gi solat mcm biasa...cm dia kate..blum ade lg org mnta cuti lama sbb nk blk kg.....ADUH!!!!!! bile dgr tue...nmpk gaya nye..xde hrpn la ku nk blk Msia spnjg 3thn ni...ade indon juga yg satu lab ngan dia..mnta nk cuti blk raya..dpt hy 1week je...aduh!!!!mcmane la rsnye nk blk seminggu je...
erm...sudah..melalut ni...ok..back to topic..
In this Fukuoka....Fukuoka Mosque Ito Kyudai also did solat tarawih there...n i dont want to miss it..mmg nk sgt solat tarawih ramai2....best sgt2..;)n every weekend we hv GRAND IFTAR at MOSQUE which iftar dibuat by turn..n turn MSIA will be in the 4th week...n itu mmg sgt membuatkan ku teruja nk pergi...;)the GRAND IFTAR start with the Indonesian...beside,Msia also did a GRAND IFTAR between us..where already finish last week..n this following week will be at our Apartment...begitulah..kalo fasting kate cn..rasa nk  bersama dgn ramai org Islam...br dpt rs smbt RAMADHAN...boleh buat Usrah....erm..rindunye...dgn geng2 USRAH ms duk UMP.....dh lm dh x berusrah...

we @ GRAND IFTAR MALAYSIA


altaf playing with 'bdk2 besar'...;)
the most important when we want to dis is altaf...since altaf dh pndi jln ni..sume btende dia nk jelajah...n skang dh pndi nk bergaul ngan org besar2...n my hubby always ask about how altaf when we want to pray...she cant play lame2 sorg2...nnt dia bosan..erm...last week we hv a GRAND MALAYSIAN IFTAR.....n altaf ms ni sgt tidak terkawal...sekejap nk gi kat abi..sekejap nk gi kat umi...n bile nk solat maghrib...umi always letak je dia beside me...n i can pray...but there..she refuse..nk letak dia..ltk je..nangis...bukan main kuat lagi..last2 xdpt la umi berjemaah...abis abi solat..umi br leh solat..kalo dia nk ngan org lain..xpe..ni dgn org lain pun dia xnak...sungguh mencabar sekali...n bile dia tgk bdk2 besar dr dia main2 kat blkg..dia pun nak main juga....then..budak2 ni ajak dia main...bukan main suke la dia...tp pas msk geng main dia tue..ade bdk tertolak die...n jatuh...dia terus nangis...pas tue...cr umi n abi...abis nangis..nak main lagi tue dgn bdk2 tue..aduh!!!..abi nk solat tarawih pun terganggu...n abi decide from that day...we cant jemaah di mosque..xkhusyuk nk solat..abi kata solat jemaah di rumah saja..so...till now..we just solat tarawih di rumah saja...jus last 2 day we go to ITO..to breaking fast and solat Tarawih...n altaf behave very well..Alhamdulillah...;)
umi..really exhausted...melayan altaf...;)

umi exhuasted.....altaf cant control...huhuhu;)


Malaysian @ FUKUOKA, JAPAN..

erm...what's lingering in my head now is how i want to solat tarawih with altaf?I want her biasa pada masjid n nk dia biasa pd solat jemaah..spy dh besar nnt dia akan ikut apa yg umi n abi dia buat....but at the same time i want to focus on my solat n while I solat..she can do anything..n i nonit to worried it about a danger things to her...like terkene besi ke ape ke...how?how?how?can u give me some suggestion?




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